Being single and on the prowl for new love can be very similar to shopping for groceries at your local supermarket.  Depending on what your shopping for will make a huge difference on your total bill and what’s coming home for dinner.

We all heard of the theory of never go shopping on an empty stomach and always sticking to a list.  Not only does this help you save time and money but aggravation of having to chose an item beyond the multiple brands, styles, flavors, etc.

Well this same theory applies for searching for the right woman.  Men all have their own unique set of criteria that they look for in selecting a woman.  The criteria is always different depending on the man and the situation he is in.  Common sense provided that if you are looking for a woman that you would like to build a long term relationship, then you should only shop in the aisle that are designated for wifey material.  If you are looking for a little fun and a lot of drama, than check the sales and clearance sections and you will have an abundance of hood rats to choose from.

Lacking common sense and the ability to think beyond our Mr. Snuffles ( that is what I call mine) us men tend to break these basic rules of engagement.  As keeping with the shopping theme,  I suggest men begin to make a shopping list.  Keep it simple and make a 2 column list; one highlighting Must Have’s the other side Can’t Have’s. (This is just an example, my list is a lot more thorough than this, but you get the picture.)

Important side note: Make sure you have a couple of take out menus stashed in your cupboard.  Sometimes fast food is just as filling as a home cooked meal.

This list should be updated regularly, people change, situations change, you don’t ever want to  go to the store and find out that your favorite brand of grits has been discontinued.

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Attraction comes in many forms for men.  Some men, like myself prefer short, dark skinned, slim chicks, other men like my cousin Jason like all chicks except black girls, lol.  Some men like my brother Adrian, like ghetto, big booty chicks.  But sometimes the smallest and yet minuscule feature of a woman can sometimes become the most highly desirable and biggest turn-on for a man.  Although it’s rare that a relationship will be based or lost upon such physical features, please don’t get it twisted, they still can become an important element of  attraction and  definitely a factor in a couples  sexual relationship.

Features such as nice hands,  clear and soft skin, or even fluffy ear lobes have started to creep up the list of highly desirable traits of what attracts men to women.  But one popular and most discussed feature have begun to hit mainstream, FEET!! YES, I said it, FEET!!

Feet for woman are a very important indicator of a couple of different elements.  First, cleanliness, how often have you seen woman at a club take her heals off and begin to dance barefooted on the dance floor and you thought to yourself, damn I bet her feet are nasty.  Better yet, how disappointing  is it to see a pretty woman with her hair done, outfit nice and crisp, fingernails manicured, and then take a peak at her feet, and find out honey is MC Hammer’s step-sister.

Now for my dudes, if a woman has taken the time to make sure her feet are nice, neat, manicured, and sexy,  there is a very good chance that honey dip has a very good grip on paying attention to detail in all aspects of life.   Men, try spend some time watching your woman groom herself or for you players out there  (another man’s woman), you guys will find out that it takes an awful lot of time and energy for a woman to actually maintain that portion of her body amongst everything else.

So to my ladies, having a set of pretty feet  is usually handsomely rewarded by those men who can appreciates a woman that can wake up extra early and cook us our breakfast, prepare us our lunch for work,  come home and cook a great dinner, clean up our home,  and still manage the time to take care of those feet.  Now, that undoubtedly is very sexy!!!!

So women, are you the type that keeps your socks on during sex?  Are you always buying stockings because you have that extra long big toenail that always seem to tear through the material?  Better yet, are you still wondering why your man never sucks or massages your toes and feet?  If your answers are less than aspiring, I have 4 words for you:

GET YA FEET FIXED!!!!

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Are you on Facebook to network with others in your field? I doubt it!  Are all of your friends REALLY YOUR FRIENDS? They might be.   But for the majority, I speculate that there is some type of Fuckery that is going on and I am curious to find out.  So instead of giving a biased and uneducated answer to my thoughts of what’s going on in the Facebook world, I decided to  create a FAKE profile to prove my hypothesis of people trying to use Facebook as a hook up tool rather than its original intent; to keep in contact with lost ones and current friends and family.

So here is the profile I decided to create, it’s nothing special, but I wanted to put a little spin on it.   First, I  wanted to make it a Female profile so that I can get results faster, because I am a man and I know how men think.  Secondly, I would put her in a RELATIONSHIP, to show you how unimportant a relationship status is to a Man!! Lastly, I added 3 pics and added some video and links and commented on some friends pages to make the profile somewhat believable.  Believability is crucial in this test!

So the test begins,  after adding random guys and gals, it only takes a couple of days before the messages to come pouring in.  Now, if these people were on here to just keep in contact with long lost friends and family there would be no reason to add her, BUT THEY DO!!  So let the games begin..

To protect the Innocent and horny, I erased the names and faces.  But to let you in on an Esquire Secret, all these guys are either married or in a committed relationship.  Here is a sample of what is hiding inside of the private messaging section.

Nothing about old times, Nothing about the good old days, nothing but compliments and trying to get contact information.  After 1 month, this one gal that I created out of thin air had over 300 guy friends and over 200 private messages just like the ones above.

In conclusion,  I have proven that Facebook is the new dating game and its only going to get better once Facebook realizes the dating element of this site.  The online dating niche is one of the largest and most profitable niches online today and Facebook has just put its name in the hat and it doesn’t cost a dime.

Always respect & love the Ladies,

D.Esquire

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If you are dating a really fine girl and havin really good sex with her, how soon does your money becomes her money?

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