So your in desperate need of a hug? You want to wake up to that special someone, huh?  You miss those special moments with your Boo, right?

Well, women sorry to tell you, if your at this point, it’s time to do one thing—— SETTLE!!

I bet you’ve told yourself and your girlfriends that you don’t have to settle.  You have it going on to the point that men should be drinking your bath water.  Your milkshake has all the boys running, right?  Well, statistically speaking every day you go on thinking that there are fresh new 18 years who JUST entered the dating mix.  And what does that mean to you, it means one thing, COMPETITION!!

In most large urban cities, women out number men at least 5 to 1.  And when you take in account the gay men, the men in jail, the men that already have women, the men that has no ambition, the men that have too many negatives, the men that have small penises, the men that still lives with their mothers, did I mention the men in JAIL, the men the are out of you league, the men that aren’t in your league, the men that only date white chicks, the men that only date strippers, the men that only date foreign women with big booties and long weaves, you are left with not much to chose from.

So, settling isn’t necessarily a good thing or a bad thing, now a days its the ONLY THING..  You see, between the ages of 18 -29 typically are the PRIME years for women but many don’t take advantage.  They tend to want to date ballers, thugs, and the typical dudes they KNEW weren’t marriage material. So now after the dust settles, they want to have a serious relationship with a devoted, professional, god fearing, good looking, well mannered guy with no kids and making $100,000 a year with a 10 inch penis.  But note to all women, this dude, if he exists, won’t be available, and if he does and you find him after age 29, you best to play the lottery cause you one lucky B*tch!!

So, is settling bad?  Of course not, settling is not a death sentence, its just lowering your standards to dealing with someone more manageable.  Sort of like wanting a Lexus but settling for a Camry, same body style but less features and less sexy.

Here’s how you make settling more fun.  Make a list of absolute No-No’ s and then on the other side a list of Maybe’s and a list of Absolutely must have’s.    Begin to date and whomever has the best balance of Absolute’s against the No-No’s shall be the victor.  Remember what the definition of dating, and that is exploring your options with multiple men with the mentality of streamlining your candidates to the ultimate suitor.

Always respect & love the Ladies,

D.Esquire

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